Bizarre love rituals

Trevi Fountain (AAP Images)
Trevi Fountain

Whether it's strange ways of declaring love, odd superstitions or traditional courtship methods, love can make people all around the world do some bizarre things...



The padlocked bridges

Where: Keila Joa, Estonia

In a charming little spot by a waterfall, separated by a forest from the sea, are a couple of rather unusual bridges.

Traversing the river, they are absolutely covered in padlocks of all shapes and sizes. A closer inspection of the padlocks reveals that they all have two names written on them (often in Cyrillic script, admittedly) and a date.

It's a custom of the area's Russian community. Newlywed couples engrave their names on the lock, and then throw the key into the river. It's supposed to symbolise that their bond will never be broken, and it's rather touching to see how many people have come to the bridges to seal their union over the years.

Love spoons

Where: Llangollen, Wales

It is, of course, vitally important for any father to know that a prospective son-in-law is able to sustain himself and his family. So what better way to prove it than getting him to carve a spoon?

That's Welsh logic for you, and this is allegedly how the tradition of love spoons came about.

The basic premise is that an amorous young buck would give the spoon to the apple of his eye, with the delicacy of the carving an indication both of his craftsmanship skills and degree of devotion. If she accepted the spoon, they were officially courting. Well, it's better than ''get your coat darl, you've pulled'', isn't it?

Nowadays, young Welshmen generally prefer flowers, chocolates or alcohol for the same purpose, but a small cottage industry has built up selling kitsch love spoon souvenirs to tourists. Picturesque Llangollen is the capital of this — you can hardly move for them.

The Trevi fountain

Where: Rome, Italy

A giant piece of baroque ostentation, the Trevi fountain is one of the many highlights in Rome (once you fight past all the men trying to sell you handbags and toy commandos anyway). But for all the architecture, leaping water and mood lighting, the main attraction for many people is a silly superstition.

It has long been held that if you throw one coin into the fountain, you'll return to Rome. However, it's what happens afterwards that is of interest to lovers.

Some versions of the legend insist that if you throw two coins in, it will lead to marriage, but three coins will lead to divorce. However, others say that the marriage part comes from throwing three coins in with the right hand, over the left shoulder.

Kachikally Crocodile Pool

Where: The Gambia, West Africa

Local folklore has it that the waters of this small, luminous green pool are a fertility aid. To bathe in them is reputed to boost the chances of conception, and if the number of children called Kachikally Crocodile Pool is anything to go by, then there may well be a point.

The only slight snag is that the pool is full of hundreds of really big Nile crocodiles. Astonishingly, none of those crocs has ever been reported to have attacked a human — this is again attributed to a magical spell put on the water. One of the monsters, Charley, even allows people to go up and stroke him.

Still, for those who want to become incredibly virile, there is a way of splashing yourself with the water without having to fear the pond's toothy inhabitants. Just buy some off the nice man who says the crocs won't hurt you.

Four-leaf clovers

Where: Dublin

The four-leaf clover is a traditional lucky charm, but many people don't realise that it also forms part of a love ritual too. In some parts of Ireland, it is believed that if a woman consumes a four leaf clover whilst thinking about a particular gentleman, he will eventually be hers.

And if that doesn't work, why not feed him shedloads of Guinness and then pounce on him anyway?

Hounen Matsuri

Where: Komaki, Japan

Forget February 14 and try March 15 if you prefer the romantic sight of twelve foot penis being carried through the streets to flowers and chocolates. Hounen Matsuri is an ancient Japanese fertility rite, which involves a group of 42-year-old men (42 is thought to be an unlucky age in Japan) carrying a comically oversized phallus towards a shrine.

They are backed up by a group of ladies carrying smaller versions of the big boy, and it is considered lucky for members of the crowd to touch the traditional todgers as they make their way through the streets.

Those who can't quite get close enough to gain the immeasurable benefits of handling the goods can settle for second best with all manner of genitalia regalia that is sold in shops and souvenir stalls on the day. Maybe a lollipop? Or a keyring? Either way, there are plenty of phallic objects that will make an excellent present for grandma.

Know of any other bizarre love rituals?

User comments
My boyfriend and i had recently went to seacliff bridge. We walked under the bridge and we keep finding keys, we found probably 6 sets of keys. We figured they were for padlocks but wondered why they were below the bridge, as we came up and walked along the bridge we disoved all these padlocks with couples names and dates, it then hit us that thats where the keys belonged to. We figured it meant along the lines of unbroken love etc. we're glad we didnt pick them up. I think its a beautiful idea......
I think they sound funny, quirky and beautiful. I think there is nothing wrong with a little more magic and love in the world. So dont be down on it, if a couple want to throw some coins in a fountain or bathe in special water. It may not work but the if they believe it will a positive mind set is an powerful thing.. and you never know it might just be true after all
Went 2 Woolongong, N.S.W. recently & was surprised 2 c padlocks on the Sea Cliff Bridge... obviously couples had placed them there, thanx 4 letting me know a possible meaning...
the person who wrote this article obviously doesnt care about what they say about other cultures, "That's Welsh logic for you" geez wata nice person who wrote this article, dont you think? yea, all in all, have a bit more respect for other people's cultures whne you write about them. show respect
Wow you ice queens (or kings, gentlemen) make have really harshed my mellow, so to speak. "the more ... "desperate' the ritual".. Jeez! I'm pretty sure this article was meant to show the extent that humans will go to woo thier crush, it's kinsa sweet, no? My advice, take your cynicism somewhere else frostyknickers. xx peace.
gosh how spooky some of these are and to those who have love in their lives ,god bless and keep happy,and may all looking find it.
the reason people have stupid 'love rituals' is that they're afraid the feeling of love will leave them and they'll be unhappy like other disapointed couples they know, the more desparate and 'romantic' the ritual, they flakier and more unstable the couple, who's main hope is probbly to be too poor and or preganant to break up
And here in Aus in the 21st century, the women cook huge feasts, drink and serve beer and always perform well in the bedroom. They iron the mens clothing and love their partner unconditionally, no matter what he says about their mother or their slightly feminine male friends. Only then are they worthy lifelong partners!!! hehe
Sorry for hitting the "report" button, did not realize what it ment. I wanted to comment, that the Estonian capital is Tallinn. Riga is the capital of Latvia.
Rain, the term honeymoon actually comes from a time when the brides father would have to supply the groom with honey wine until the next new moon. Makes a bit more sense and is actually quite romantic

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